I have come to learn that, people who have been through a lot, goof up as equally many times as he has done well, do not tell people how much they have gone through. They do not advice people unless asked,they neither praise nor condemn. In short, they don't judge. They have been through so much that they know that anytime, anywhere, fate can twist your life around. And they of all people, know only too well, that what fate dictates is as how HE has ordained ,...and there is no use fretting or complaining. One just have to ride it through...and survive it as best as one can.
So how do we know they have been through a lot? Their calm disposition, their very few words, carefully and thoughtfully said, says it all.
What I wanted to say here is that they who have been through a lot, know not to compare their misfortunes with the hardship of others and then claim that they have it worse than others. People who have been through a lot can appreciate that for each one, a hardship wont be claimed as such unless the person really felt it.
This I have learnt, from people who have been through a lot.
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